If you want to get over someone who has left or rejected you, the first thing you have to do is face reality: they are not into you. If you two were such a great match, they would be in it as much as you are. This is particularly important if you are constantly comparing every new date to your lost love. And you’ll see they are not that perfect as your selective memory suggests.A shitty attitude, whether angry and aggressive or defeated and negative, will nuke any chance of sex or love faster than telling them that you eat live puppies. A short man with confidence is far more attractive than a tall guy without it.The attitude that your height is a defect and nobody could possibly love a short man is attraction poison. Yes, you may have to fake it for a while as you unlearn the bullshit that’s been shredding your ego.When you can build presence, women won’t remember you as that short man at the party.They’ll remember you as that incredibly charming guy who made them feel like he got them in a way nobody else did.They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.One of the best things you can do – especially as a short man – is to develop your sense of presence.
Or they did – but then they changed their mind and broke up with you. Well, it is theoretically possible – but how many times has it happened to you? You’re allowed to feel bad about it, and grieve your loss. If you don’t believe me, bookmark this article and read it again in 3 months.
That will only prolong your agony, not make it go away.
But it’s better to go through this pain now than postpone it for later and live in false hope.
The only thing that was on your mind is how to get them back. You can’t see your life functioning as it used to if you’re not around this person. It’s possible your loved one is living in denial and deep down they are so in love with you only they don’t know it. You have to acknowledge this to heal your heart as fast as possible. Living in denial can only feel good for a short while. Make that list and take them of their pedestal, and you’ll see there are plenty of other amazing people out there. And last, but not least – you have to go get your life back. It’s the best recipe to feel loved again, and the best way to invite someone who’ll want and appreciate what you have to offer into it.
You couldn’t think about anything else but him/her. Oh yes, I think we’ve all been there at least once. well, multiple times 🙂 When you are in that situation you tend to have tunnel vision – you can’t imagine simply moving on with your life. Oh no, you think – he doesn’t see how great we can be together. She’ll fall for me if only I get another chance to explain it to her. And if you were meant to be together, you would absolutely be together. If you have them in your mind as this flawless person who never did anything wrong, it’s no wonder you can’t find someone who’ll compare. Make your life fun and fulfilled again, just do things that make you happy, with people who make you happy.
You may think that you’re hiding it like the professional poker-player you could be, but in reality, that sour attitude is shining off you like an especially greasy halo.
potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.
If you still think they are the best thing that has ever happened to you, and you’ll never find someone who can match them, you can do another reality check – make a list of all the things you didn’t like, you argued about, things that made you feel uncomfortable, their words, opinions and behaviours that hurt you. Once you see it on paper it might be easier to see why you didn’t work out.
The person who rejected you has a mind of their own, and you can’t change it by force. They are exercising their free will, and unless they choose you, you’ll have to walk away.
Look, I get it: you’ve been getting Oompa Loompa jokes since forever.
You’ve been called midget, Tiny Tim, Grumpy and all the other names.