IMPORTANT NOTE: Most guys will be afraid of making a woman mad, and will Do you ever feel like attraction between you and a woman is like some kind of magic 'trick'...?And that it's something cool that you can see other guys do, but you'll never really "get it"?It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely. If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple.I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.
When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.
You may know this one, too, where you're talking with a woman, and suddenly one of her friends drags her away to go talk with some other "friend." What really happened there was that the girl you were talking to used her "chick code" (those looks women share that seem telepathic) to say, These are just some of the techniques and strategies you will learn in my dating manual, The Dating Black Book.
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Just look at the girl and ask her to tell you how everyone in her group knows each other.
You can say this: "Hey, before you run out of cool things to talk about, tell me... " If you listen closely, what she says will give you at least ten new subjects that you can then talk with her and her friends about - their jobs, their history, all the juicy stuff you can use for a good conversation. Plus, by getting her friends back in on the conversation, you avoid that "creepy guy hitting on their friend" situation.
Some guys out there will tell you that you need to get your "inner game" of confidence and self-esteem all taken care of before you can meet women and get more dates.
This is popular advice from people who don't understand how to train guys properly.
I call this technique "Tease to Please", and it works because it short-circuits a woman's usual defense mechanisms against meeting 'strange' men.
You see, every woman comes with her factory-installed defensive shields against meeting new men or letting them into her life.
Don't make it cruel, but tease like you would on the playground as a kid: "You're not bad looking ... I don't want to catch anything from you." By using the Dating Dynamics methods, you will flip her Trust switch in her head.
You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.