The Widower Hides You from Family and Friends It’s not easy for a widower to let friends and family know there’s a new woman in his life – especially when many of them are still grieving over the late wife’s passing.He’s probably worried that they’ll think he’s moving on too fast or, perhaps, won’t be open to the idea of seeing him with someone else.
by Kenn Gordon in Mystery This is the first part of the Andy Mc Phee Trilogy.
If you look, act, think, or have other similarities to the late wife, be very concerned – particularly if the widower’s wife is recently deceased.
The danger here is that he’ll want you to be the late wife and once he realizes you can’t be the woman he still loves, the relationship will come to a crashing end.
You Remind the Widower of His Late Wife Widowers are naturally attracted to people that remind them of their recently departed wife.
Hair color, body type, or similar interests are just a few things that might make him notice you.
You have great dates and fun-filled romantic weekends together.
He treats you right and gives you all the outward signs that he loves you but an “I love you” has yet to part his lips.
He Constantly Compares You to His Late Wife People are creatures of habit.
We become accustomed to things being done a certain way.
He might also be concerned that this new relationship will cause friction with other family and friends who are still mourning.
These worries and concerns are natural, but they’re no excuse.